[Hosser]

This is in no way steered toward any one individual *coughIANcough* (lol)
If you ask a question, what are you personally asking for.
Basicaly you have a few options,
The truth...an honest answer that has sound reasoning and facts to make it so.

What you want to hear....a somewhat honest answer usually said in a kind way so as to not pass judgement, cause disention or in one way or another an answer that isnt totally factual but more based upon personality.

Validation.... This has two sides. The question for validation with a, I did this, or I have this, or I tried this..etc followed by what do you think?, is not a bad thing to ask and then HEED the answers. However the other side is this, I did this, or I have this, or I tried this..etc followed by what do you think?, followed by either a, but, or a thousand additional questions questioning why the answers you recieved arent what YOU believe.
Sorry just a rant , its a good thing to do every once in awhile. I could have talked about steroids and sports or horse racing but I think giving and receiving advice is a little more important, after all most steroid users were advised to do so were they not?